For co-parents

Two homes. One story for your child.

Both parents add photos, videos and milestones to the same timeline. So that later your child doesn't have two half albums, but one complete story — no matter whose week it was.

7 days of Premium for free · no payment details needed

The problem nobody solves

After a separation, your child's childhood drifts apart. Half the photos are on your phone, the other half on your ex's. The school photo is at one house, the first drawing at the other.

There are plenty of apps for the logistics — calendars, splitting costs, messages. But those are working documents. They're about this week. They're not about what your child will want to look back on in fifteen years.

Ouderliefde does just that one thing: your child's shared timeline. No message inbox, no cost overview, no place where arguments end up.

Built for two homes

👨‍👩‍👧 One timeline, two homes

Both parents add to the same timeline. What happens at yours and what happens at the other parent's ends up neatly side by side by date — exactly as your child experienced it.

🔒 Nothing is public

No social media, no ads, no algorithm looking over your shoulder. Everything is stored on European servers under the GDPR. You decide together who gets access.

📸 More than just photos

Photos, videos, milestones, drawings and school reports. Even the things that would otherwise sit in a drawer at one parent's house become part of the full story.

👵 Grandparents on both sides

Grandparents follow along through their own secure link, which you can revoke at any time. The other parent's family doesn't have to miss anything either.

💌 A time capsule for later

Write letters your child will receive later, once they're grown up. Both parents can write, and your child gets them all.

🗂️ No more WhatsApp archaeology

No more digging for photos in a chat from three years ago. Everything is together by date, in Full HD — and with Premium in the original quality.

One subscription covers both homes

Most co-parenting apps charge per parent. That doesn't just double the cost; in practice it means one of the two parents drops out — and then the app stays empty. With Ouderliefde one parent pays, and the other takes part fully for free.

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Why not just use WhatsApp?

Most co-parents forward photos through the app. That works — until you want to find something from three years ago.

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One shared timeline per child
Both parents can add
Find things by date
Milestones, drawings, school reports
Nothing publicly visible
European servers, no ads
Family follows along securely
How it works

Get started in 3 steps

1

Create your child's timeline

Free account, no payment details. Add your child and put the first photos on it — older ones too, because you can backfill by date.

2

Invite the co-parent

One invitation by email. The other parent creates a free account and then has full access — without a subscription of their own.

3

Share with grandparents and family

Create a secure sharing link for the grandparents on both sides. Moments you set to 'Just for us' never show up for them.

Frequently asked questions

What exactly is a co-parenting app?

A co-parenting app is an app that helps separated parents organise things around their child together. There are two kinds: logistics apps for calendars, messages and costs, and memory apps for photos, videos and milestones. Ouderliefde is the second kind: one shared timeline per child that both parents add to.

Do both parents have to pay?

No. One subscription covers the whole family. The co-parent creates a free account and can then take part fully: adding photos, recording milestones and looking back at everything. So it doesn't depend on whether the other parent is willing to pay for an app.

Can my ex see what I add?

Yes, that's the whole idea: you share one timeline of your child, so you both see everything on it. There are no hidden sections. If you want to keep something private, don't put it on there — a time capsule letter to your child is personal, though, and meant only for your child.

What if the other parent won't take part?

Then you simply use Ouderliefde yourself. You record what happens during your weeks, and you can still invite the co-parent later. The invitation stays open until it's accepted; nothing changes on your timeline if that never happens.

Can the grandparents on both sides see it?

Yes. You create a secure sharing link and send it via WhatsApp or email. The link is only for your family, can't be guessed, and you can revoke it whenever you like. Grandparents open it and see their grandchild's timeline without installing anything. That works for both sides of the family.

Where are my photos stored?

On European servers, under the GDPR. No ads, no facial recognition, no selling of data. You can export your data or delete your account at any time.

Does this work for a blended family too?

Yes. You create a separate timeline for each child and decide per child who can add to it and who can view it. Shared moments, such as a holiday with all the children, can go on several timelines. One subscription covers all the children.

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Even if the other parent isn't on board yet. You can always invite the co-parent later.

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